
For the Breakthrough Warriors
Born of Fire.
Forged through grief.
Not "Why is this happening to me?" but "What is this here to teach me?" If you're here, something in you is already shifting. You're not lost — you're ready. This is where the breakthrough begins.
The Journey
Every story has a turning point.
Mine was the day I stopped asking "Why?" and started asking "What is this here to teach me?"
Chapter I
Born of Fire
KEN — meaning: Born of Fire; Handsome. A name that would become a prophecy.
Chapter II
The Different Type of Mom
My mother singlehandedly raised me. A strong and determined woman — the pillar I leaned on without knowing it.
Chapter III
Traumas & Mistaken Identity
The struggles of identity. The conflicts. The questions that come when you don't know who you are yet.
Chapter IV
Ken the Wanderer
Independence. Wandering. Searching for something I couldn't name in places that couldn't give it.
Chapter V
The "JOB" Journey
From a one-man operation to a million-dollar retail chain. The outside looked impressive — but the foundation was cracking.
Chapter VI
Fool Me Time and Again
Shame on me. The cracks became breaks. Why me? Why this? Why now? Nothing fit.
Chapter VII
From Grief to Gratitude
The question changed. Not "Why is this happening to me?" but "What is this here to teach me?" That was the door.
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Countries reached
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Manulife Cambodia, 2019
Breakthroughs, caught on film.
Real moments. Real shifts. Real Ken.
Breakthrough Moments on TikTok
Better My Relationships
The main reason to chase breakthrough — for the two most important people.
More Reflections, More Breakthroughs
Inside reflects out. Why reflection is the door to lasting change.
Sustaining Breakthroughs
What needs to happen after the breakthrough to make it last.
Starting Over
Inspired to share the beginning again — it's part of breakthrough.
Reflection for My Breakthrough
A personal reflection on the breakthrough journey.

The Book
From Grief to Gratitude
A deeply personal memoir of loss, transformation, and the single question that changed everything. Ken's journey from the darkest chapter of his life to his greatest breakthrough — and how you can make the same shift.

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Voices of Transformation
Voices from the book.
Real people. Real words. Taken verbatim from the pages of From Grief to Gratitude.
"From Grief to Gratitude" is a rare gem that openly discusses the downs in life, something not many authors dare to explore so honestly. What makes it stand out is how it addresses a question we often find ourselves asking: why do some people come out much stronger after a traumatic experience while many don’t? It encourages you to reflect on your own experiences and challenges. Ken doesn’t just share his journey; he dives deep into the power of revisiting past stories and seeing them in a different light. This book shows how rewriting your narratives can change how you view your life and help you move forward. His ability to open up about his personal struggles with grief, especially following the loss of his mother, makes for a profound and touching read.
"From Grief to Gratitude" is a rare gem that openly discusses the downs in life, something not many authors dare to explore so honestly. What makes it stand out is how it addresses a question we often find ourselves asking: why do some people come out much stronger after a trauma…
Chow Lin Yi
Singapore
Cofounder, getArrange.com
I’ve been friends with Ken for 27 years. He has many admirable qualities, but the top five that stand out are: kindness, honesty, integrity, compassion, and resilience. He has built up a wealth of life experiences and stories, which not only show his talent for humor, but also sh…
Erik Toh
Singapore
Entrepreneur and Business Owner
I was acquainted with Ken Kish last year during a professional conference that we both attended. Seeing his branding as an “authentic connector” and “motivational humorist” is a tell-tale sign there’s more to his life and story. Since then, I have been following his journey throu…
Johan Fanggara
Indonesia
CFP, Indonesia Financial Entrepreneur, 8-yr MDRT, 1COT
"From Grief to Gratitude" is an extraordinary exploration of human resilience and the transformative power of a positive mindset. This book provides profound insights into navigating life’s inevitable hardships with grace and strength. Ken eloquently illustrates how embracing gra…
Ronald Tan
Singapore
Chief Executive, Infinitum Financial Advisory Pte Ltd. Author & Master Trainer of AikiManagement for Leaders
I am genuinely inspired by Ken’s testimony in his book, From Grief to Gratitude. I believe everyone can see a part of themselves reflected in it. Ken’s conviction that pain can be ‘digested’ and understood to improve our lives encourages us to confront our own pain and brokenness…
Tang Weng Liang
Singapore
Head of Distribution Talent Centre, Income Insurance Limited
Ken was a devoted son to his late mother. The sudden death of his mother was a great loss to him and his wife. I saw the pain that he went through as he wrestled with her passing. His late mother was a great pillar in his life, as she single-handedly raised him. She was a strong…
Hambali Leonardi
Singapore
Fellow soldier and friend, Pastor
Over the many years that I have known Ken, he has always struck me as not just a witty and humorous friend, but also an authentic, sincere, and loyal buddy. In any encounter with anyone, I have witnessed him spending time and displaying focus on communicating with people he meets…
Dr Joshua Luke
Singapore
Global Master Trainer and International Speaker, Celebrity Master Personal Branding Consultant
My first ever encounter with Ken was in 2006, when I was just a young uni grad, and I remember being one of the only ones able to pronounce his full name. As with all exciting starts, this made for a relationship that will last a lifetime. Grief is one of the hardest and most dif…
Kern Lee
Singapore
Friend, Managing Director, Professor and Life Coach, Pastor
Ken’s book is a profound testament to resilience, wisdom, and self-discovery. Through his heartfelt narratives and insightful reflections, Ken takes readers on a transformative journey marked by personal growth and introspection. In his book, Ken delves into the significance of…
Elissa Neo
Singapore
Head of Training, Tied Distribution, AIA Singapore
"From Grief to Gratitude" is a truly transformative book that I highly recommend to anyone seeking to forge authentic connections in both their personal and professional lives. Written by a dear friend, Ken, this book is a heartfelt journey through the pain and suffering he has e…
Jason Tan
Singapore
Agency Growth & Leads-Gen Architect
Every word written rings with truth and power. This is the right book for people who are experiencing pain or trauma, helping them feel that they are not alone. It offers a deep sense of encouragement, prompting us to reflect and shift towards living a more hopeful life, regardle…
Lady SC
Singapore
Life Coach, Hypnotherapist
I’ve had the privilege of knowing Ken for several years, dating back to our army reservist days when I was his officer. Initially, he wasn’t in my platoon but eventually joined me, albeit hesitantly. That’s how our long friendship began. Throughout this time, he has consistently…
Dean Tan
Singapore
Head of Operations, Fund Management Industry
My sincere thanks to Ken for sending me a sneak peek of his book, From Grief to Gratitude. You can always tell that Ken has been through a lot. Suffering molds different people in different ways, but the scars will always be evident, whether they are used as lessons, medals, or s…
Alan Ng
Singapore
Chief Executive Officer, Arrange Pte. Ltd. (getArrange.com)
Ken’s new book is a profound journey of self-reflection and evolution. His honest exploration of life’s questions and the understanding gained through personal experiences will resonate deeply with readers. This book offers valuable insights into the importance of conscious refle…
Tan Soon Chye
Singapore
Head, Manpower Development, Great Eastern Life Singapore
I got to know Ken through a work engagement years ago. He has always come across as an enthusiastic person with his ever-humorous, light-hearted approach to solving difficult situations, always spreading positive vibes.
Alan Lee
Singapore
Head of Recruitment, seasoned financial services leader
I’ve had the pleasure of knowing Ken for several years now, and I can confidently say that he’s one of the most unique individuals I’ve ever met. He’s the perfect blend of funny and serious — he can make you laugh until your sides hurt one moment and then switch gears to have a d…
GC Koh
Malaysia
Insurance Industry
When I first received the invitation from Ken to write something about him, I thought it was a joke. I remembered the laughter, the smile, and all the jokes he made, which is why I didn’t take it seriously. However, when Ken explained that he would include this in his first publ…
Geach Kim
Cambodia
X4 MDRT Member, 2023 President Club
Ken has been a very dear friend of mine for many years. When I first met him, I could tell he carried a hefty emotional burden from his issues with his estranged father and struggles with his identity. Despite masking his pain with constant jokes, I could sense his loneliness, hu…
Louis Ng
Singapore
Co-founder, Maven Potter LLP
In this book, Ken invites readers into his inner thoughts, sharing a deeply personal and authentic account of his struggles, triumphs, and transformative journey. With a genuine and down-to-earth approach, Ken’s words resonate with honesty and relatability, making this book a com…
Jeanette Lim
Singapore
Regional Head of Development and Incentives, Chubb Asia Pacific. President of Singapore Insurance Institute
I know Ken from the MDRT Global Conference event in Singapore. From our first meeting, he has consistently brought fun and happiness to those around him with his jokes and engaging way of speaking. His unique personality — cheerful, with a distinctive appearance, and of course, a…
Glen A Winata
Indonesia
Founder Genesis Agency, MDRT Qualifying and Life Member (11 years), Author of Two Sides: The Art of Change, Jejak Langkah Pemenang, Insurance Agents Playbook, International Speaker
This captivating book, From Grief to Gratitude, immerses the reader in Ken’s profound odyssey. It beautifully narrates the life story of a man who embarked on a remarkable journey of self-discovery and growth through many ups and downs. As its pages unfold, I am reminded of the t…
Rotha Chan
Cambodia
CEO & GM, Manulife Cambodia
Ken, in a nutshell, is one of the most caring and intuitive people I know. His writing reflects his personality — deeply empathetic and so authentic that every experience shines through and resonates with the reader.
Debbie Ng
Malaysia
Head of Leadership and Agency Management
Ken Kish’s "From Grief to Gratitude" is a deeply moving and transformative journey that speaks to the heart. Ken’s raw and authentic storytelling offers a compassionate perspective on overcoming life’s most profound challenges. His ability to connect personal pain with universal…
Corey Williams
New Zealand
Partner, SwainWoodham Group. Specialist Employee Benefits Consultant. Author of Unlocking Employee Well-Being
I have known Ken since 2019, and he has always come across as someone who is cheerful and ever-ready to help others. From Grief to Gratitude allows us to understand another side of Ken, revealing his personal struggles and how he overcame them. This book truly amplifies his belie…
Tan Hong Tau
Singapore
CEO, Manulife FA
My wife and I first met Ken during our honeymoon at Izakaya Toyo in Osaka, Japan. Ken excitedly shared that he was on a quest to visit every location featured on the Netflix show Street Eats, which had also inspired our visit. He took a lovely photo of my wife and me with a plate…
Nathan McNamara
Australia
Psychologist
Ken’s continuous life betterment, his courage to write and share his life struggles and how he has transformed into who he is today is truly admirable. All readers from different walks and stages of life will be inspired, motivated & encouraged.
Kelvin Pong Ming Onn
Brunei Darussalam
AIA Senior District Director, 17x MDRT with 3x COTs. Vice President of Brunei Darussalam National Badminton Association. Chairman of Chung Hwa School Kiudang
"From Grief to Gratitude" — If life was a soul-chosen journey, then this book is a soulful rendition of what Ken had chosen: the separation, abandonment, betrayal, heartbreaks, loss of family, identity crisis, financial desperation, emotional pain, trauma, and finally, freedom.…
Jensen Siaw
Singapore
Global Motivational Speaker, CEO, Jensen Siaw International